I seriously hate weddings. I am not enjoying a single moment of planning any of this.
I want the day to come and go so I can be married and crawl into bed and sleep with my HUSBAND.
Seriously, people just go to weddings and judge you.
“Oh, that looks expensive”
"Wow, that is so cheap I cannot believe they did that, how tacky"
Really though, its all about how expensive everything looks, how formal, how much money you spent, and just a load of crap.
Yes, I do want my family and close friends to celebrate such a happy occasion with me, but at what expense?
IF we took the money that is being dished out for a 8 hour day we could have a nice down payment for a home, or pay off student loans. The possibilities are endless.
I am stuck.