I suppose to some extent we all judge people by their first impressions or what they look like. Even when we are trying not to.
I didn’t blatantly in my own head judge this person, but in one of my classes at the community college I’m attending (where everyone is stupid, and does stupid things) there is this boy who sits behind me. He seemed normal, cute, fun to talk to. I sort of assumed he did dumb things like party or smoke/drink. But I didn’t think too deeply into it. He was just a person.
He surprised me (in a good way) because of how polite he is. He has manners, he is sweet, he rarely uses swear words (if at all). He hates that his friends are involved with drinking/partying/smoking and he stays as far away from all of that as possible. He has a good head on his shoulders.
He is a very sweet kid and I wish I could know him better.
I like happy surprises like this, because usually when I assume things about people I’m right.
Unless I assume the best of them, then I’m wrong - ha.